i think popular media culture is poisoned in the following ways:
- if you like something, people will make fun of you because you have admitted to experiencing a sincere emotion. this makes people defensive about what they like.
- if you don’t like something, people will take your opinion personally and attack you. this makes people feel like they have to have a very good reason to dislike something.
- people reach for reasons to like vs dislike things that are serious and often politically relevant so they can defend themselves from other opinion-havers.
- these positions mutually reinforce each other until it is assumed that any declaration of liking or disliking something is both personally and politically relevant by default.
- i am forced to look at this every time one of my fandom posts blows up.
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I can’t begin to express the difference it makes just that I’m able to wear exclusively t-shirts, baggy shorts, and flip-flops. And the thing is, right. What you notice is that I’m wearing something slightly odd for the weather. What you don’t notice is that I’m not curled up with my hands clamped over my ears because socks make the clinking plates in the restaurant too loud.
Next time transphobes call trans healthcare “experimental” you can show them this
penicillin was first discovered in 1928; vaginoplasty is less experimental
ibuprofen was first discovered in 1961; phalloplasty and HRT are less experimental
Adderall was first applied as an ADHD treatment in 1994; puberty blockers are less experimental
would also like to note that every single one of these procedures and treatments has been through rigorous testing usually both on animal models and humans in order to be approved as safe and effective by the FDA and not a single one is considered experimental. just in case anyone tries to be like “well HPV vaccines and Adderall are also bad”
(via busket)
man sometimes i forget that some people aren’t even a little bit queer.
Chana Marelus | Fall/Winter 2023
(Source: chanamarelus.com)
lightbluedaisie-deactivated2022:
lightbluedaisie-deactivated2022:
The urge to bother my mutuals
reblog if it’s okay for your mutuals to bother you <3
(via egg2k16)
Well, this would be interesting…
This will be amazing, though!
Just think about it:
We are in the era after it caused SO MUCH, and caused so many sites to put in blocks and other restrictions to stop it from scraping everything
If they are forced to wipe their entire dataset then they won’t be able to get even a fraction of it back!
Not only that, but they would be forced to get permission of the owners for everything they use. Which would IMO, actually kill most of the issues with AI and actually make the technology into something actually useful.
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metalheadsforblacklivesmatter:
can i talk my shit again. yall love fat people when theyre like 200 lbs and “somft” but can we get some positivity posts for people who are like 400 and having trouble getting off the floor. who have tried everything and cant drop more than 20 pounds. yes fat people are beautiful and awesome but can we talk about 4/5x more instead of just xxl. for the love of god. can we talk about those of us who cant get merch of our favorite creators bc it only goes up to 3x.
CAN WE TALK ABOUT STILL FINDING YOURSELF PRETTY AS A FAT PERSON. CAN WE TALK ABOUT BEING 375 AND CUTE AS SHIT BUT EVERYONES FUCKING PUT OFF BY YOU. CAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT. IM FUCKING. THIS IS PERSONAL TO ME
Yes. Exactly fucking this. We live in a society. Larger fat people are treated like toxic sludge despite being cute and wonderful and funny and (not even needing to be all these things I’m just saying, yanno, larger fat people are WORTHY FUCKING HUMAN BEINGS THE SAME AS THE THINS OR LESSER FATS)
Here’s some amazing brands that are size inclusive. (This is not an ad. I am not affiliated with these people. They don’t know I exist. They’re just size inclusive brands.)
Cute dressies and go up to a 6x!
MORE CUTE DRESSIES THAT GO UP TO A 6XL
ALTERNATIVE FASHION THAT GOES UP TO 7XL
Swimsuits. Has gender neutral option. A few T-shirts. Alternative style. Goes up to 6XL
(And no. Me saying “dressies” isn’t me being infantilizing. That’s just how I talk when I see cute dressies.)
And these people use plus sized models to show off their plus sized clothing on tiktok.
-fae
There’s also Rebdolls which goes up to 5x
@mayakern makes wonderful skirts that fit up to size 8X, and shirts that are up to 6X
plus the skirts have huge pockets!!
Storyboards and scene pitch for Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse by Wynton Redmond (Miles and Gwen) (Space Train)